I decided to post this video on domestic violence after reading from the following blog. To be sure, spiritual abuse occurs in Christian marriages as well as it does in secular marriages. However, as opposed to domestic violence in secular marriages… without having any statistics on hand, I think I would be fairly safe in stating that usually the spiritual and/or physical abuse within Christian marriages is centered around the misapplication of the scriptural passages concerning the “wife submitting to her husband”.
Some fascinating reading here on this blog!
http://submissiontyranny.blogspot.com/search/label/controlling%20behavior%20in%20men
Below, an anonymous commenter sends in a scathing accusation to the blogger:
“You take away and add to scripture, you are aligned with satan and must seek forgivenness, for women are to be submissive to man and man treat women like Christ treats the church, this is why your evil feminist perspective is part of the destruction of the family and you are in great delusion or are a planted wolf, i shake the dust from my feet and rebuke you. May Jesus forgive you.”
These sorts of comments are very frustrating to bloggers because, for one thing, the blogger is not going to be able to reason with an unreasonable person. In this case, the Christian blogger must simply do the wise thing and resort to scripture.
You Christian men who are obeying Jesus, and loving your wife as Christ loved the church, this post is not about you. May Jesus bless you richly, and as the scripture says, your prayers will not be hindered because of disobedience as will those who are mistreating and possibly battering their wives.
Opinions anyone?
Spiritual Abuse Sanctuary 
You should check out Waneta’s book if you like her blog!
Honestly, I wonder if people like that truly understand scripture. They are so full of hate, and you have to wonder if they truly grasp Christlike love.
http://www.eaandfaith.blogspot.com/
Here’s the link for those who would care to check it out.